Parenting arrangements that put your children first.
Where the children live, time with each parent, school and holidays. We help you agree on arrangements that work, make them binding, and represent you if the court must decide.
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Parenting arrangements at Asher Freeman Lawyers
Asher Freeman Lawyers helps separated parents across Victoria with parenting arrangements, often called child custody. Decisions are based on the best interests of the child. Since 6 May 2024 there is no presumption of equal shared parental responsibility. We help with family dispute resolution, parenting plans, consent orders and court applications.
What we do for separated parents
Advice on arrangements
What arrangements may be in your children’s best interests, and why.
Family dispute resolution
Preparing you for mediation and advising during the process.
Parenting plans
Written agreements that set out how you will share parenting.
Consent orders
Making your agreement legally binding without a court hearing.
Court applications
Applying for parenting orders, including urgent applications.
Changes and breaches
Changing existing orders, or responding when orders are not followed.
Key things to know
Best interests come first
The court’s focus is the child’s best interests, including their safety.
Mediation is usually required
A family dispute resolution certificate is generally needed before court, with exceptions.
Agreements can be binding
Consent orders make your agreement enforceable; a parenting plan does not.
Three simple steps
Meet with us online, or in person at our Chadstone office (by prior appointment).
Talk to us
Tell us about your children and what is happening, confidentially.
We advise and negotiate
We explain your options and help you reach an agreement.
We make it binding
We prepare consent orders, or represent you in court if needed.
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Parenting arrangements: frequently asked questions
Is there still a 50/50 rule?
No. Since 6 May 2024, the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility no longer exists. Arrangements are based on the child’s best interests.
Do we have to go to mediation first?
Generally yes. You usually need a certificate from a family dispute resolution practitioner before applying for parenting orders, unless an exception applies, such as family violence or urgency.
What is the difference between a parenting plan and consent orders?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents but is not legally enforceable. Consent orders are made by the court and are legally binding.
Can I move with the children?
Relocation can significantly affect the other parent’s time with the children. Get advice before you move.
What if there is family violence?
Your safety and your children’s safety come first. Exceptions to mediation can apply, and you may need an intervention order. Talk to us.
Sources: Attorney-General’s Department: children and family law · FCFCOA: compulsory family dispute resolution · FCFCOA: reaching agreement about children. Last reviewed October 2026. This page provides general information only and is not legal advice. Contact us for advice about your situation.
More ways we can help
Divorce
Applying for a divorce, sole or joint, and what to do about property and children.
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Dividing property, debts and super after separation, within the time limits.
Learn moreConsent orders
Turning your agreement into legally binding orders without a court hearing.
Learn moreBinding financial agreements
Prenups and agreements before, during or after a relationship.
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